Defeat....

Defeat and failure are the best teacher of time and sequence of event. To be defeated and still stand strong means you know how this things work.... You v been there you can tell the story from the first person point of view... You are omniscient...
Years and days make us stronger and better, but defeat and failure helps us through.. 
A life and road full of sucess story is a life ordinary, a life mixed with failure, defeat and SUCESS is a life less ordinary...
How does it feel when you fail... To me, it's a sort of sober reflection, a moment to stay put and count the cost.
An infinitesimal moment, a moment you ponder and wonder . A moment to critically analyse what had and has to be done not to fall a victim of the circumstance.

I see failure as a recipe for sucess, how are you able to measure your worth without knowing how to cope with defeat and failure .
They say life is the best teacher... Wait till you  met with defeat and failure then you know you've met  the best teacher of all.

My dear friend, once you have learnt to cope with defeat and failure with the grace of an adult and not the grief of a child.. Then I know you are already A MAn.


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